The study is the first to examine the facial feature preferences of gay men and lesbian women.
Gay men and straight men did not agree on the types of male faces they considered attractive," he added. "Men, gay or straight, prefer high sexual dimorphism in the faces of the sex that they are attracted to. Also, the types of male faces that gay men found attractive generally did not mirror the types of faces that straight women found attractive on average," said Glassenberg. I agree with many here that we are sick of the gay elite/intelliigentsia telling us what we should like or be….for all their talk of following your instinct, be who you are/authentic, they want us all to think as they do or you get shamed….so so sad, I've never understood the need of gay men to affect a feminine voice, demeanor or look and whilst I take NO issue with drag queens and enjoy their performance, to me it is act, a show and not for every day living."Our work showed that gay men found highly masculine male faces to be significantly more attractive than feminine male faces. out of 10 gay friends 7 to 8 prefer masculine men, the other 3 to 4 had no preference to slight preference to put it in survey speak. The majority of my gay friends are the same, we have had this discussion un-skewed and It sits about 70 to 80% preferring masculine gay men and matches closely with this survey, i.e.
I like masculine men, if I wanted a purse to fall out when they open their mouth, I'd date a women.
#Gay men fashion femminie Pc#
It's not femininity itself, but how far that display of femininity seems to hide your nature as a male…Īgreed it's the gay elite thinking to shame us or make us be politically correct and many of us and I'd suggest from this survey (tho I certain it was slightly skewed) still demonstrates enough of us are sick of the PC agenda and telling us what we 'should like' and how 'inclusive' we must be. In the same way, men who try to project a hyper masculine personality are equally a turnoff, invasive and uncomfortable to be with. People are not attracted to unbalanced loud personalities. Consciously or subconsciously gay men read those signs and will not feel attraction to that.Īnd then you have a fraction who are bitchy, obnoxious, overly dramatic, histrionic as if they were playing a character. Wearing makeup like a woman does a if trying to hide your natural male traits, wearing women's clothes, walking around in a seductive way as if you were in a pop diva's music video as if you had a woman's pelvic structure, etc makes you look like you desire to be read as and be treated like a woman or that you want to assume the role of a woman socially. Our personalities give information about ourselves to others. What I would say is that gay men are not attracted to men who seem to put an effort into looking and behaving like a woman. When I was younger an just discovering gay porn I always assumed being a bottom demanded being feminine or was lined to femininity since my only example was heterosexuality, but later when I saw many bottoms in gay porn have a masculine demeanor I understood homosexuality is not heterosexuality and you can a bottom, subordinate and masculine, but I never got the example, form the real world before. Usually gay guys who are bottoms and take the subordinate role.
#Gay men fashion femminie how to#
Girls at a very young age learn from women the intricacies and seductive ways to attract men and how to express that desire socially eventually some gay boys do the same thing taking the same example from women.
I think living in a heterosexualized world where representation of homosexual attraction is literally null some gay boys will express their attraction in a feminized manner by learning from women who are the closest example they have regarding how to communicate their romantic and sexual desires for men.